I had a nice conversation with my daughter this morning about Life in general, but also about people, ordinary people and Succesful people. What is ordinary and how Succesfull is Succesful? We came to the same conclusion that no matter what, we are All human, people and ordinary people if it comes to Life.
My Passion is to Help people, Coach people to create more Positivity and Abundance in their Life. To help people See that it Is possible to Change your Life around when you feel not entirely Happy. But even though I made the Choice to become a Life Coach, doesn’t mean I have an ordinary Life as well. Like You and Everyone else I also have my Challenges, Problems and Issues to deal with.
People who Present themselves as Super Succesful, earning a 6- or 7 Figure Income, seem All very Happy and Succesful and it’s hard to imagine they have Challenges in Life themselves. But Anyone, not matter How Succesful or How much money they make…..have their Challenges, Problems and Issues to deal with. Only, you don’t ever hear about it.
I believe it’s not Reality towards other (ordinary) people to pretend to have no such and try to make people Believe their Lives are So Wonderful and Succesful. And of course, that’s the way they “Sell” themselves And their products or services, because That Image is what You also want. The Image of being So Succesful like it seems there are No Challenges at all anymore.
It is more about…..How do you Deal with it? Some people are better dealing with Challenges, Problems and Issues than others. And That is something you can Learn. And yes, a Coach can help you with that, or even a good Friend or Family member can give you good advice, if they are better in dealing with things like that, and that might work for You as well.
But never go in the Believe that Succesful people or even Celebrity don’t have Challenges to deal with. They only don’t show it to the World, they keep it Private so the Only thing we See is their Succes and an Image that is Created like it’s All Perfect! In some cases, with some of those Succesful people or Celebrities it’s even Far from that!
It’s important to See behind the Veils and not Only to See what is Presented right in Front of us. Because once you Know that even the most Succesful people have their Issues…..How different Are they Really from, say, Ordinary people? Not different at all.
Everyone has a Life. And every Life contains Challenges, Problems and Issues to deal with. It all depends, again, How you deal with it and if you Let these Challenges overrule your Life or that you are able to Deal with it as quickly as possible. Life is Reality and some are better in Shaping a “better” Reality, but Never Think or Believe that there are Certain People who Don’t have Challenges at all.
I Am willing to say, even though I Help others, that I have my Challenges as well, I just try to Deal with it as quickly as I can and to let these Challenges Not control my Life. What I do or Who I turn to? Most of the time I have a chat with my Daughter about it, as we have a very good Bond. Or I talk about it with a very good Friend or a Colleague Coach.
It is very important, and nice, if you have someone close to you where you can Talk and Share with. As this person(s) can Support you where needed and Be there for you when You need it. If you don’t have or know people who can Help you with this, indeed a Coach might be a good option. Even the Most Succesful people have Coaches to help them with their Challenges.
And even though a Coach is an Ordinary person as well, he/she is Trained to show people Solutions in a Different Perspective, sometimes even very Simple solutions, but just things or ways you don’t think about. And yes, those Simple solutions a Coach will also use on themselves, but it still doesn’t mean that even a Coach sometimes has the “need” to talk with someone else.
Be never ashamed of the Challenges you have or must face, just remember you are Not the Only one. Ask someone for Help and Support when you Feel you can’t do it Alone. As often solving the problem is done quicker than keep walking around with unnecessary Stress, Thoughts and Feelings for days, weeks or even years.
Angelique Mol ღ