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2017 – A Number 1 Year

“Number 1 Years are for New Beginnings, Opportunities, Chances and New Challenges, a great Year to start something New or to finally Set that long wanted Goal or Dreams”

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Everyone is making new Resolutions for the New Year, which is great! But ask yourself, how many times did you make Resolutions and when you look back at the end of the Year, you might have completed a view but there might be also a lot of things you didn’t do, for whatever reason.

When you make Resolutions for the New Year, set Goals for yourself, it’s not just about Saying or Writing it down….it’s a Mindset.

You, yourself, in the first place, Have to Believe that you will Do it, that you Can do it and that you will Succeed. Nobody can make you move, You have to do it yourself. You need to find the Spirit within yourself that gives you the Drive to get Started and to Keep Going.

Also, be Open for new Opportunities, Chances, Changes and Challenges. Maybe some things might not always come your way like you would want it, but you just Need to keep in mind that it will help you Forward. It will help you Grow, Develop and become Successful in what you have planned out for yourself.

So the main thing is to Stay Focussed, no matter what. Don’t let yourself Distracted by other people or circumstances, and if it happens then get back on track as soon as you can. The less time you stay distracted, the easier it is to get back into your routine again.

Also don’t make Goals only because it makes you look better towards others. As if you do this, you won’t succeed. You Always need to do it for yourself, with your Own Believe in it and your Own Motivation. You might have tried it before, to set a goal basically more for others than for yourself….and what was your result? For some people it might have helped, as they sometimes need that kind of Motivation to succeed, but for the majority of people….they take off with Big Enthusiasm but are not able to keep it up.

Always, always make changes in your Life because You want to make a change!

Leaves me to say, for now, get a Notebook….write down what your Goals and Plans are for this year, use a Journal to track yourself down, every day, and Reward yourself every month (just with something small) for your Achievement that month. This also gives you extra Motivation to keep going.

Today is the day! Let’s get Started!

Angelique ღ

Succes and Happiness with Affirmations

“You might underestimate the Power of Affirmations, but when you use them on a daily basis, you will notice a Positive Change in your Life”

Angelique Mol ღ

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First of all…..Affirmation Do Work! No matter in what way you use them, they Do work. So, why not using them in a way so it’s beneficial for you?

If you set yourself a Limitation, and don’t believe Affirmations will work for you, you create a blockage within yourself and they might not work for you. Though, when you keep a “negative” mindset and thoughts, they might work for you but not in the way you would want it to be.

Our thoughts are very Powerful, it’s a strong Energy. You probably heard before “what you send out, you receive back”, and that’s true, as you set that particular Energy in motion. So when you have negative thoughts about yourself, other people or things, you will attract even more of the same.

People are very easy with thinking “bad” or “negative” about themselves. We easy think “I’m not good enough for that”, or “I can’t do that”, or “I am not that beautiful”…..and so on. But why is it so hard to Praise ourselves a bit more and say Good things about ourselves?

Does that mean we are “full of ourselves”? No, it means that we allow and accept that it is okay that we feel good about ourselves, or that we feel that we Are beautiful, or that we Are capable of doing things. And it has to do with Self Love, not with being Cocky or having a big Ego.

When you use Affirmations, on a daily basis, you set an Energy in motion, to attract abundance in every kind of way….when you use it in a Positive way. Of course when you use “negative” Affirmations like a few I mentioned before, you can’t expect you will attract Good and Positive things in your Life.

Myself, I use Positive Affirmations every single day, throughout the day, in the morning when I wake up, in the evening before I go to sleep…..and yes, it does something With me, it does something To me and it does something For me, definitely!

If you want to be Succesful in what you are doing, or in something you try to Create, it’s very important that you Believe in yourself, so when you use the Postive Affirmations you don’t “just say” them, but there is a Feeling behind it as well. You need to be convinced and Truly feeling what you are saying.

Visualise and Feel makes Affirmations even stronger!

Using Visualisation with Affirmations works even better! As you don’t just say the Affirmations with True Feelings but you also can See it happening or manifesting. Which makes it even more Powerful.

You probably have seen the quote before ” I Am…..and what you put behind it, is who or what you are”.  As Affirmations do start with I Am, I Will, I Can, I Attract….etc.

Myself, I always use Affirmations starting with I Am. For example…. I Am Healthy, I Am Beautiful, I Am Energetic, I Am Fit, I Am Happy, I Am Love, I Am Positive, I Am Succesful, I Am Abundance……but I also use Affirmations like this, I Attract Abundance in every area of my Life, I Create a Life full of Happiness, I Radiate Love and Receive Love, I Create a Succesful Life….etc.

Basically, you can use Anything that fits you, your situation and your Life. As long as you use it in a Positive way.

Do you need to say the Affirmations out loud? No, you don’t have to. Remember I told you before that our Thoughts are very Powerful. You can “say” the Affirmations within yourself, in your mind. You can whisper them if you want to, or say it out loud as well. You can also use them in a form of Meditation. You can also write them down in a journal or on a daily page in your calendar. It’s all about putting the Intention out there, the Right Mindset.

Using Affirmations makes you feel more Confident as well, it gives you a boost of Energy as you Truly Believe in yourself! And you Trust on yourself that you Will make it work!

Give it a try! Use Affirmations on a daily basis, let’s say for a week at first and see if you experience any difference. Within yourself, in how it makes you feel, or in experiences that happen around you, or “coincidences” that suddenly appear….You might be surprised!

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“The Right Mindset is the Key to a Better, more Succesful, Healthier and a more Happy Life”.

Angelique ღ

We All have a Life

I had a nice conversation with my daughter this morning about Life in general, but also about people, ordinary people and Succesful people. What is ordinary and how Succesfull is Succesful? We came to the same conclusion that no matter what, we are All human, people and ordinary people if it comes to Life.

  

My Passion is to Help people, Coach people to create more Positivity and Abundance in their Life. To help people See that it Is possible to Change your Life around when you feel not entirely Happy. But even though I made the Choice to become a Life Coach, doesn’t mean I have an ordinary Life as well. Like You and Everyone else I also have my Challenges, Problems and Issues to deal with.

People who Present themselves as Super Succesful, earning a 6- or 7 Figure Income, seem All very Happy and Succesful and it’s hard to imagine they have Challenges in Life themselves. But Anyone, not matter How Succesful or How much money they make…..have their Challenges, Problems and Issues to deal with. Only, you don’t ever hear about it.

I believe it’s not Reality towards other (ordinary) people to pretend to have no such and try to make people Believe their Lives are So Wonderful and Succesful. And of course, that’s the way they “Sell” themselves And their products or services, because That Image is what You also want. The Image of being So Succesful like it seems there are No Challenges at all anymore.

It is more about…..How do you Deal with it? Some people are better dealing with Challenges, Problems and Issues than others. And That is something you can Learn. And yes, a Coach can help you with that, or even a good Friend or Family member can give you good advice, if they are better in dealing with things like that, and that might work for You as well.

But never go in the Believe that Succesful people or even Celebrity don’t have Challenges to deal with. They only don’t show it to the World, they keep it Private so the Only thing we See is their Succes and an Image that is Created like it’s All  Perfect! In some cases, with some of those Succesful people or Celebrities it’s even Far from that!

It’s important to See behind the Veils and not Only to See what is Presented right in Front of us. Because once you Know that even the most Succesful people have their Issues…..How different Are they Really from, say, Ordinary people? Not different at all.

Everyone has a Life. And every Life contains Challenges, Problems and Issues to deal with. It all depends, again, How you deal with it and if you Let these Challenges overrule your Life or that you are able to Deal with it as quickly as possible. Life is Reality and some are better in Shaping a “better” Reality, but Never Think or Believe that there are Certain People who Don’t have Challenges at all.

I Am willing to say, even though I Help others, that I have my Challenges as well, I just try to Deal with it as quickly as I can and to let these Challenges Not control my Life. What I do or Who I turn to? Most of the time I have a chat with my Daughter about it, as we have a very good Bond. Or I talk about it with a very good Friend or a Colleague Coach.

It is very important, and nice, if you have someone close to you where you can Talk and Share with. As this person(s) can Support you where needed and Be there for you when You need it. If you don’t have or know people who can Help you with this, indeed a Coach might be a good option. Even the Most Succesful people have Coaches to help them with their Challenges.

And even though a Coach is an Ordinary person as well, he/she is Trained to show people Solutions in a Different Perspective, sometimes even very Simple solutions, but just things or ways you don’t think about. And yes, those Simple solutions a Coach will also use on themselves, but it still doesn’t mean that even a Coach sometimes has the “need” to talk with someone else.

Be never ashamed of the Challenges you have or must face, just remember you are Not the Only one. Ask someone for Help and Support when you Feel you can’t do it Alone. As often solving the problem is done quicker than keep walking around with unnecessary Stress, Thoughts and Feelings for days, weeks or even years.

 Angelique Mol ღ