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How Connected are you with your Inner Child?

“Your Inner Child is an important part of your Inner Happiness”

Angelique Mol ღ

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What is your Inner Child? It’s the “child part” within us and includes all that we learned and experienced as child before puberty. It’s a part of us that will always be there and that we can let come to the surface whenever we want.

As adults we often have our Inner Child repressed within us. We have the Belief that we need to be serious, responsible and perfect in everything we do. We don’t have time to “play” as we need to focus on career and succes.

Though repressing your Inner Child can create a blockage in your Inner Peace and Inner Happiness, as we all Need time to play now and then. When we allow ourselves to do so it gives us Positive Energies and Vibrations, it gives Joy, Fun, Laughter and Happiness.

So what can you do to Awaken or Re-connect with your Inner Child?

Basically, everything you also loved to do as a child, without shame, without boundaries. When was the last time you sat on a swing? For me, it’s been not so long ago, and even though people were looking at me and my daughter, we didn’t care, we had fun!

Dance! Sing! Play! Have a pillow fight with your partner, skip through a park instead of walking, see the world as a Magical Place, play in the snow, have a play with a water hose….there is so much you can do for letting your Inner Child to come alive!

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And if you find it hard to do certain things when there’s other people around, then do it at a moment when you’re by yourself, it doesn’t make a difference that much, though it would be better if you just Be your Self, including your Inner Child, also in front of others without shame to show the True You.

Most people might look funny at you as they don’t have the guts to do it themselves, but deep inside…..they would want to as well. Don’t forget, it doesn’t matter what other people think, you only are responsible for your own Happiness, so why would you press it away or to the background, only because of what other people think?

Try it! And let me know how you Feel about it ;-) I bet you Feel Good!!

Angelique ღ

 

 

You are Responsible for……You

                                                             
I write this post, motivated by a conversation I had with my daughter yesterday. We were talking about responsibility and how that works for ourselves.
You might have noticed yourself that often people have expectations from you. They expect you to pay attention to them or respond on things or moods that overcome them. Sometimes even people put the responsibility on you for no reason actually. It’s sometimes hard to look in the mirror but we All need to learn to look at ourselves, in a mirror, and start to realize we are Fully Responsible for our Own actions, thoughts, words, reactions etc.

It’s too easy to push your responsibility away from you and blame it or put it on someone else. The only one who can change your reactions, moods, thoughts or words is You! Of course you can’t control someone elses reaction on what you do or say, especially when you don’t mean anyting wrong….but you Do control how You respond on someone elses reaction. Do you take things on board, do you Make yourself responsible how someone else respond on you? It’s funny enough all up to You. Everything turns back at You and only You.

When you are for example in a bad mood, it often happens that you respond in a bad way towards others as well, while they often even have no idea that you feel bad or why. It’s not their fault that you are in a bad mood. So the way You respond on them is Your Responsibility.

When someone else is in a bad mood and gives you negative energies and not so nice answers, you can pick it up and answer with the same negative energy or you can response in a way to make it not Your responsibility and keep being positive. Again, it’s all about You, how You respond.

Of course you don’t have to keep up with every bad thing, words or moods people throw at you, but the way you respond to it can make a whole of a difference. Responding back in the same bad energy can make things even worse and ruin your day as well, while if you don’t let it Touch you it won’t effect your mood or ruin your day and the other person feels that their behavior doesn’t have any influence on you so they won’t continue with what they try to do.

It is never your responsibility how people act or react on you, that is their responsibility. They always have a choice and their responsibility as well. It’s their own choice how they react on things or on you. But because it became so easy and normal to blame “the other” people often Think it is the responsibility of the other.

No, just learn to see and to know that You and nobody else than You is Responsible for your own action, words and thoughts and so is your mood as well. You can change it for your Self and towards others, someone else can’t do it for you, it’s simple as that.

When people have expectations from you, it’s Their responsibility, not Yours. People should never have expectations as it often turns into dissapointments, for themselves. Same for You, never have expectiations from others as you might get dissapointed as well.

The Greatest Day in Your Life and Mine is when we take Total Responsibilities for our Own Attitudes. That’s the Day we Really Grow Up  – John Maxwell

                                
Namaste,

Angelique Mol ॐ