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The Power of Helping Others

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Did you ever helped someone without even knowing that person very well or not at all?
But just helping that person because you see help is needed and you feel compassion?
It happened to me last week…….
I was working in my Café when someone entered the door and immediately I notices something was not right.
Either he was totally influenced by drugs or by alcohol.
It was a bit ironic as he has a body shape like Popeye, so obviously he was doing sports a lot. It didn’t fit with the picture like how I saw him standing there in the door.
He asked me if he was allowed to take a seat at the bar and I said “yes of course, have a seat”.
He said down on a bar chair at the corner of the bar and went over to him to check on him.
He looked terrible and had visible been drinking way to much, it was definitely the smell of Vodka…..
I aksed if he was okay and he started talking with me and mentioned he had big problems, private problems concerning his marriage / relationship.
He asked for a beer but I convinced him he already had been drinking way to much, so I offered him a coffee or tea. Tea it was.
Then he asked me if he could talk with me for a bit so in between serving my clients I had short chats with him.
I had no idea where he was coming from, sounded like a bit of an russia accent so I asked him where he was living and where he came from.
He obviously lives in the neighborhood and later on I found out he is from the area of Letland.
He later on went home but in the next coming days he returned, in the same condition, to have a talk with me.
Funnily now in my Café my Coaching work was a great benefit ;-).
Then one evening, he came in and I had a total shock as he was visibly been beaten up or something.
Big blue eye, bruises all over his face, face swollen, and bruises in his neck, on his arms and legs as well.
He was in a very bad condition this time as he was also sweating all over out of his pores and smelling awful. 
I told him he needed to see a doctor or go to the hospital as I started to get really worried about him now.
He agreed for me to call an ambulance to pick him up for a check up in the hospital.
The next day I called the hospital to hear if he was still in there or that they already released him.
He was obviously still there and they were actually happy that I called as he didn’t had any relatives or family here they could get in touch with.
They asked me if i was able to get him some fresh clothes but he needed to stay for at least another day as he could still not stand on his feet in a proper way.
So I went to the hospital, picked up his keys and got back later on with some clothes. He was really grateful for me helping him out so much.
The next day he normally got released from the hospital but they didn’t trust to let him be on his own without anybody looking after him.
I told them I could keep an eye on him for a bit, but that he was still depending on his own as he was alone at the moment.
Later on they decided to bring him to a closed hospital with special care as it was a too much of a big risk to let him go.
No they decided he has to stay there for at least 40 days, to recover physically and mentally.
He obviously had a alcohol promillage of 4.7 when he got in the hospital that night when I let him take away……they said it could have killed him.
I convinced him that it would be for his own good to be there now for 40 days, even he didn’t want to, to work his way back to pick up his life again.
Ironic is that he said not have been drinking any alcohol for the last 5 years and he is actually a boxing teacher at a gym.
But because of the relationship issues he held on to the alcohol.
I am very happy that I opened up to help someone I didn’t know in the first place and even more happy that I let him take to the hospital that night…..imagine what could probably have happened when I had not done this all……..
Now I am his contact person for the closed hospital and I’m allowed to visit him, which I will do on a regular base of course.
My friend and I will also clean up his apartment so when he comes home again he can make a fresh start and pick up his life again.
So you see what Power there is in just Helping someone, anyone, just from out of Compassion ♥ .
Angelique ღ

Get More out of Life!

Every day a new day. We get up, breakfast, go to work or school, come home, dining and perhaps in between share some sparetime, and off to bed again.
For many people days go by like this, every day seems almost a copy of the day before. Not much excitement, not too much fun things to do, but going through the threatmill of Life.
Of course you can just Go with the Flow, day in day out, but you can also try to get more out of Life!
You can look for opportunities and chances to make your Life richer, to make it more exciting!
In this way you allow yourself to Develop and Grow, taste new things of Life, how exciting is that?!  :-)
We all often have these excuses that our Calendar is already full enough with other obligations so there’s no room for any other things to do. We have our work, we have to bring the kids to everywhere, we need to do groceries, cook, clean up etc. So way too busy to put any extra time in there for something nice or something which can make us Grow in Life.
The point is actually, we can Create time how we want it but we often put too much pressure on ourselves to get all things done at the same day. It has to be done now and today and that cause a lot of stress. Not necessary as we can plan things more comfortable for ourselves by schedule things on other days instead of pushing it all into one day.
We are so “used” to be busy and under stress every day that we don’t even  notice how much we are running around like crazy and not allowing ourselves to have time for other things. While it can be so much better for ourselves when we create more time for ourselves to work on ourselves.
When we are able to grow in Life we become personally richer and create more knowledge which gives us the opportunity to experience new and other exciting things again to grow even further.
“Why should I grow, I like my life like it is”
Of course, if you are happy with your Life like it is at the moment then that is fine as well. But wy would you take your current Life for granted while there is so much out there to discover and learn from. You will have much more to share with others and it makes you feel good as well. You will attract other connections, new friends and especially the whole excitment around it makes it already worth it.
Imagine how you felt as a child when you really looked forward to something, something exciting, and you could hardly wait to get it or to get there.
Well the same feeling you can create when you start to Explore and Develop, the same excitement! You will feed yourself with knowledge in so many ways and it doesn’t matter in what way as long as it makes you move forward in Life.
So don’t stay still at the point where your are now, don’t take everything for granted but get out there, search, look and find, discover and develop!
And when you still might have the feeling your Calendar is too full, you can always contact a Coach to help you out there and you would be surprised ;-) .
Get on with in, come in action and start Enjoying Life for the Fullest!
Angelique ღ ,

Life Coach for Personal Development


E-book in Progress

For the first time ever I started to Write an E-book which will be available for FREE once it is finished.
The E-book will tell about Personal Development and what influence it has on our Lives. Not just our Personal Life but also our Relationships, Work or Career, Friends, Hobbies and Sports. All is Connected with each other.
For me it is important to let You know what Personal Development is about so You can understand what it can do for You and what Effects it has on several parts of your Life.
Personal Development is very important when you want to Grow in Life, Move Forward and become more Happy and Succesful for example.
Personal Development can Change us Personally but it often also changes your Environment and your Connection with others, most of the time in a Positive Way of course ;-) . But it can also happen of course when you Develop and Grow others can not Keep Up with You. And this is completely normal as well as others have their own Path to go and Develop in their own way and speed. It is different for us all ;-) .
So if you are interested to know more about my vision at Personal Development and what it can do for You then ´stay tuned´! When you are already subscribed by Email to my website you will receive automaticly a notification once it is uploaded for you to download.
Thank you All for your Support and I Am very Grateful for our Connection through Social Media or Coaching!
Angelique ♥

An Opportunity Arrives, now what?

When an Opportunity arrives it can bring confusion at the same time as well.
What shall I do? How shall I do it? Will it be a good Choice to take it? Will there be too much risk?
Opportunities are Chances to make a Change.
And of course you have Always the Choice to Go for it or let is pass by……
But if you let it pass by, you might miss out something good….or something better.
What makes an decision to take an Opportunity so hard sometimes?
It can happen that an Opportunity means you need to make Changes in your present Life, stepping out of your Comfort Zone.
And that is not always easy for everyone. But what is the other option? Let go of the opportunity and probably miss out on something good.
Yes, sometimes it means you need to move to another City or maybe even to another Country  ( which can be pretty excited too as I did it myself once ) :-) .
And when you have children they need to go to another school, leaving their current friends and start new as well.
There can be a lot that needs to be arranged and will that all be possible in a short period of time? Maybe you even need to sell your house……
So now we need to compare What we have Now and Where we will end up…..
The most important thing is that you Feel with your Heart and Less with your Mind. Yes, sometimes you need to take a “risk” or “jump from the edge” to step out of your Comfortable and Safe Life to grow further.
When you never take any chance or never make any change in your Life, how can you expect to move forward and reach the goal you want?
When you set out strong intentions for Your Self that it will work out because you Want it very much, then it Will Work!
It’s often your Mind that confuses You with all these thoughts about “but what if this or what if that”?
You can’t look into the Future so you will never know up front how things will work out definitely in the end, but you Do know that if you set the right Intentions for Your Self you have Much to say in it ;-).
When this Opportunity maybe is something you have waited for so long and it’s actually something you Really want, then just simply Go for It!
You never know if you get another chance to do so and when you have trust ( as the opportunity didn’t come up for nothing ) you can be sure it Will work out for you!
I moved to New Zealand once because I had the opportunity to do so. Couple of people around me tried to warn me because “what if it doesn’t work out?” “what do you do then?” “If you give up everything here and you need to come back, will you be able to?”
So, because of this I Could have got doubts or got unsecure.
But actually, I felt I didn’t need to explain anything to anybody as I was excited about it and if I would let this chance pass by I might have been wondering the rest of my Life how it would have been if I Had been there.
So, in a pretty short time my partner and me had to sell the house, he had to quit his job, my daughter needed to go of school, we needed to sell lots of our stuff as we couldn’t bring all…..but we Did!
And now…..I didn’t manage to stay in New Zealand, I stayed there for just over 2 years, but it was Such a great Time and Experience of my Life!
No One will Ever take that away from me anymore!
I returned to Europe but I’m always Happy and most of all Very Grateful for the Opportunity that was Given to  me.
When you Trust on your Own Feelings and are not weak for the “judgements” or “good advice” from Others, you Know deep inside if this Opportunity is worth to Go for or not.
And even when it doesn’t look clear yet immediately or when it still can look a bit uncertain, sometimes you just need to step in the Unknown with the Trust you are always Guided for it to turn out well.
When you put too much Doubts or Fear in there Your Self you attract the wrong Energy and it might happen it doesn’t turn out that well ;-).
Have Faith and Trust, very important, and Believe in Your Self and your Ability to make it work! And then it Will Work!
Just let things happen, stay in the Now and Go with the Flow of Life as that’s the only Way to Grow and Develop :-)
Angelique ღ ,Life Coachwww.angeliquemol.com
Twitter: @Coach_Angelique


The Succes of a Coach

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Angelique ღ ,Life Coach

Twitter: @Coach_Angelique