Tag: life coach

How to deal with Unwanted Energies?

It’s not always easy for us to deal with the other World as it is. We face challenges, have struggles, deal with worries, insecurities. But it’s all part of our Journey, these are our lessons. People we meet come on our Path for a reason. People might be there to challenge you or to learn you something. Embrace every situation as something Positive, even though it might not always seem to look like that or when you don’t experience it in the first place as something Positive.


But try to reflect it back, step back from it and look at it from a bit more distance. Try to see the meaning or reason behind it. How did you respond? Was it the right way for you to respond? Or should you maybe respond in a different way so that it won’t affect you too much like it did in the first place. What can you change about your own attitude in that particular situation, in a more positive way? Can you recognise the part what you needed to learn from this? Did you learn something from it and will you respond in a better way the next time in a similar situation?Things and situations happen for a reason, to teach us how to deal with it. Can we control our anger and frustration or do we let it take control over us?

What is the energy we reflect back on the other? Is it an energy filled with negativity, anger and frustration or is it an energy filled with love so we don’t allow the negative energy come at us in the first place? Energies get less powerful when the reaction back is the opposite. Negative energy can’t sustain when the energy that is send back is positive. It will more or less calm down the negative energy and the negative energy will become powerless.

The more you Feed negative energy, the more it will grow.

Sending out energy to others, no matter the situation or how it might affect you on a personal level, when you send back an energy of understanding with love, to actually Help the other person get rid of the negative energy as well, it will change very quickly.

People might not be grateful to you in the first place, but even in their subconscious mind, they will realise what you just have done. Their anger and frustration will not be on the surface for any longer after that as your positive energy helps them to calm down, relax and realise that the negative energy is not very helpful at all, that it is not the right solution to solve any kind of situation. People might turn back to you later on and even apologise as they will feel bad about it themselves how they have been treating you.

Even when people don’t have the courage and strength to apologise to you, you will see and feel a difference in their approach towards you later on. Take that as well as a form of apologies. Don’t judge people yourself either as often it’s not always clear what is happening within themselves, where they struggle with or how they feel. People might reflect their mood on you but it doesn’t have to be meant personal to you, more reason to reflect back with love energy and understanding.

Then, let go of it, don’t keep the situation on board, release that energy from your Self so you don’t carry that energy around, but release it with love. This will make you feel much better as you don’t hold on to unnecessary energies and you might have helped someone by sending your love energy. It can be something they need so badly to be able to solve their own situation.

Be the example, Be the Light, Be the Love.

Angelique Mol ღ

2017 – A Number 1 Year

“Number 1 Years are for New Beginnings, Opportunities, Chances and New Challenges, a great Year to start something New or to finally Set that long wanted Goal or Dreams”

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Everyone is making new Resolutions for the New Year, which is great! But ask yourself, how many times did you make Resolutions and when you look back at the end of the Year, you might have completed a view but there might be also a lot of things you didn’t do, for whatever reason.

When you make Resolutions for the New Year, set Goals for yourself, it’s not just about Saying or Writing it down….it’s a Mindset.

You, yourself, in the first place, Have to Believe that you will Do it, that you Can do it and that you will Succeed. Nobody can make you move, You have to do it yourself. You need to find the Spirit within yourself that gives you the Drive to get Started and to Keep Going.

Also, be Open for new Opportunities, Chances, Changes and Challenges. Maybe some things might not always come your way like you would want it, but you just Need to keep in mind that it will help you Forward. It will help you Grow, Develop and become Successful in what you have planned out for yourself.

So the main thing is to Stay Focussed, no matter what. Don’t let yourself Distracted by other people or circumstances, and if it happens then get back on track as soon as you can. The less time you stay distracted, the easier it is to get back into your routine again.

Also don’t make Goals only because it makes you look better towards others. As if you do this, you won’t succeed. You Always need to do it for yourself, with your Own Believe in it and your Own Motivation. You might have tried it before, to set a goal basically more for others than for yourself….and what was your result? For some people it might have helped, as they sometimes need that kind of Motivation to succeed, but for the majority of people….they take off with Big Enthusiasm but are not able to keep it up.

Always, always make changes in your Life because You want to make a change!

Leaves me to say, for now, get a Notebook….write down what your Goals and Plans are for this year, use a Journal to track yourself down, every day, and Reward yourself every month (just with something small) for your Achievement that month. This also gives you extra Motivation to keep going.

Today is the day! Let’s get Started!

Angelique ღ

We All have a Life

I had a nice conversation with my daughter this morning about Life in general, but also about people, ordinary people and Succesful people. What is ordinary and how Succesfull is Succesful? We came to the same conclusion that no matter what, we are All human, people and ordinary people if it comes to Life.

  

My Passion is to Help people, Coach people to create more Positivity and Abundance in their Life. To help people See that it Is possible to Change your Life around when you feel not entirely Happy. But even though I made the Choice to become a Life Coach, doesn’t mean I have an ordinary Life as well. Like You and Everyone else I also have my Challenges, Problems and Issues to deal with.

People who Present themselves as Super Succesful, earning a 6- or 7 Figure Income, seem All very Happy and Succesful and it’s hard to imagine they have Challenges in Life themselves. But Anyone, not matter How Succesful or How much money they make…..have their Challenges, Problems and Issues to deal with. Only, you don’t ever hear about it.

I believe it’s not Reality towards other (ordinary) people to pretend to have no such and try to make people Believe their Lives are So Wonderful and Succesful. And of course, that’s the way they “Sell” themselves And their products or services, because That Image is what You also want. The Image of being So Succesful like it seems there are No Challenges at all anymore.

It is more about…..How do you Deal with it? Some people are better dealing with Challenges, Problems and Issues than others. And That is something you can Learn. And yes, a Coach can help you with that, or even a good Friend or Family member can give you good advice, if they are better in dealing with things like that, and that might work for You as well.

But never go in the Believe that Succesful people or even Celebrity don’t have Challenges to deal with. They only don’t show it to the World, they keep it Private so the Only thing we See is their Succes and an Image that is Created like it’s All  Perfect! In some cases, with some of those Succesful people or Celebrities it’s even Far from that!

It’s important to See behind the Veils and not Only to See what is Presented right in Front of us. Because once you Know that even the most Succesful people have their Issues…..How different Are they Really from, say, Ordinary people? Not different at all.

Everyone has a Life. And every Life contains Challenges, Problems and Issues to deal with. It all depends, again, How you deal with it and if you Let these Challenges overrule your Life or that you are able to Deal with it as quickly as possible. Life is Reality and some are better in Shaping a “better” Reality, but Never Think or Believe that there are Certain People who Don’t have Challenges at all.

I Am willing to say, even though I Help others, that I have my Challenges as well, I just try to Deal with it as quickly as I can and to let these Challenges Not control my Life. What I do or Who I turn to? Most of the time I have a chat with my Daughter about it, as we have a very good Bond. Or I talk about it with a very good Friend or a Colleague Coach.

It is very important, and nice, if you have someone close to you where you can Talk and Share with. As this person(s) can Support you where needed and Be there for you when You need it. If you don’t have or know people who can Help you with this, indeed a Coach might be a good option. Even the Most Succesful people have Coaches to help them with their Challenges.

And even though a Coach is an Ordinary person as well, he/she is Trained to show people Solutions in a Different Perspective, sometimes even very Simple solutions, but just things or ways you don’t think about. And yes, those Simple solutions a Coach will also use on themselves, but it still doesn’t mean that even a Coach sometimes has the “need” to talk with someone else.

Be never ashamed of the Challenges you have or must face, just remember you are Not the Only one. Ask someone for Help and Support when you Feel you can’t do it Alone. As often solving the problem is done quicker than keep walking around with unnecessary Stress, Thoughts and Feelings for days, weeks or even years.

 Angelique Mol ღ

Awakening starts with Curiosity

Awakening

 

Sometimes people ask me “how do I know I start to Awaken?”. I always answer from out of my own Intuition and Experience and what I’ve seen with most people “It starts with Curiosity”.

The first step in Awakening starts with getting curiosity in how things really are or why some things happen or putting question marks at certain events that have happened in the world. At first you feel the urge to really Know things, so you start to search and try to discover answers about the Truth. You start reading about the violence and terrible events in the world, what happens in Politics, what really happens in Life at the moment…. You start to realize that a lot of things are not like they seem to be or how the media shows you…..you start to realize that They only let you See what They want you to See.

When this curiosity unfolds itself you start to meet people who think the same, who can tell you more about what they already have discovered and you learn even more. Your curiosity grows by the day and you get even more excited to find more answers where the Truth is hidden. Once you start to find the first answers and your eyes are getting open it’s almost not possible to close your eyes again as the hunger of knowing keep growing stronger and stronger.

Awakening is not just a Spiritual turn in your Life it is also a turn in your Personal Development. You grow towards new directions where you first not even knew they existed. You start to change personally as well as you start to get other opinions about things because so much more is getting clear now. And once you take this road of discovery there is no turn back! And that’s the most exciting part of it all :-)

People, news, events can’t “trick” you anymore as you start to see more and more where the false flags are at. And it’s not just about the world news or the Politics, but also about our food…what happens with that? Ever heard about Monsanto yet? You are solving a puzzle and slowly all the pieces fall together and you will realize that it is all connected. Same with certain diseases like cancer or the whole discussion about legalizing Marijuana. Ever read about the connection between cancer and Marijuana or Hemp Oil? How the one can heal the other? Ever wondered why they don’t like to legalize Marijuana? And so there are many more things that will become clear to you.

Once the questions start to rise up the more curiosity you get to find even more answers…..about everything! And that’s the very first step into Awakening. People sometimes even don’t know they start to Awaken until they read something about it. You feel no longer a “sheep” in the crowd, all walking back to back in the same direction….no you become “the black sheep” and turn into your own direction, moving yourself away from all and everyone, with your own opinion and discoveries.

Yes, you might lose friends because they don’t understand you anymore. Family even might not understand you anymore or try to attack your opinions to make you step away from it again. But the funny thing is, they can’t, nobody can anymore because the “click” has been made. On the other hand you might start to wonder why not everybody is “seeing” what you see. How can others still hang on their Truth while you already discovered that it is not the real Truth?

Always remember…..everybody comes to Awakening when it’s their own Divine Timing. Some people won’t even Awaken in this Lifetime as they are not ready for it yet. But you can’t stand still with them, you need to move on as there is so much more to discover. And yes, at this moment it can happen that you sort of move away from people who can’t keep up with you. But that’s okay as they have their own Journey to go, their own Life to live on their own pace.

You even can come at a point you feel lonely, like if you are the only one who is seeing the Truth. All your friends or even family doesn’t understand you, don’t want to know anything about it so with who can you talk about it? Where are all the others who also discovered the same as you? Where are all the other people who start to Awaken, I just can’t be the only one?!

Happy Internet! Here you can find so much information but also Groups, Forums, Websites etc. where all people connect who are “Like Minded”. And once you start to connect with these people it will feel as “coming home” as a relief. It’s such a great feeling when there is someone who experiences the same as you and where you can talk to without being judged or told off. You start to make new friends who are also raising in Consciousness and the more people you meet the more you realize “You are not alone” :-) .

Don’t be afraid to go out and explore, discover and live your Truth. Know there are so much people out there who went through the same process as you and who are happy to help you grow even more and share more information with you or discover new things together. Once the Awakening starts it’s like a river and you will go with the flow and let it all come to you….and do let it happen! You finally discover the Truth and how you have been living in a kind of Fantasy World where you thought it was all true what was around you but that is was all a veil covering the Truth.

Now, you go out there and embrace the Awakening as Magical Discoveries are about to come to you! Enjoy the Journey! :-)

 

* If you have any more questions about Awakening, Awareness and raising Consciousness or you have the feeling of being stuck in your Journey, feel free to contact me at spirituition@live.com or Skype: Spirituition ( add in the comment it’s about Spiritual Coaching as I get a lot of “friend requests” which has nothing to do with what I do :-p )
Namaste,

Angelique Mol ॐ