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Goldstone – Healing Crystal

Goldstone is a stone that helps the wearer to attain his goal with less effort. It makes the person Calm and gives him Strength so that he may stabilize his Emotions. This stone is also considered as a Protection stone that acts as the Power Creator and removes all the negative powers and the Energies that are unwanted. It is also popular for its Healing properties as it Revitalizes the Energy field of the one who wears it.

Metaphysical properties: Copper is well composed in goldstone that strengthen the Circulatory system, Bones and lowers down the pain that is caused due to Arthritis.

It comes in various Colors like Green, Blue Purple and Brown. Each color that is exhibited by this stone is meant for a Type of Energy that is radiated from it.

Goldstone is also considered as a Spiritual Protector because of its reflective and transparent gaze. It also allows the Flow of Energy between the Spiritual and Physical Realms.

The stone brings a good Charm and Abundance. It evaluates the Risk and enhances the Confidence of the person.

For a business trip or any adventurous tours you may carry this stone along with you so that you may feel Safe from any type of mishaps.

Goldstone Magnetizes the Abundance, Harmonizes all types of Relationships and Motivates the Creativity.

Healing: Browns Goldstone is used for Physical Vitality, Energy work and Charging other Minerals and Stones. The copper brown color of this stone Connects to the Sacral Chakra, which represents the womb. This stone is also used to remove Heavy Emotions, Balances the Mental pressure, brings Creativity and can help with Manifestation.

Goldstone exhibits Positive Energy and Revitalizes the Energy. It also Protects the Body and stimulates on Physical and Mental level.

Blue Goldstone: The master healer. Blue Goldstone connects one with the Divine and provides one with Wisdom, Energy and Courage. Assisting with Learning and Communication, it teaches one to see the light at the end of the darkness and that everything is the source of Energy and Vibration.

Blue Goldstone is one of the best stones for Empaths, people dealing with Hypersensitivity. Blue Goldstone vibrates at the frequencies of New Beginnings and Balance. Associated with the Throat Chakra, it encourages acceptance of who we are, to express authenticity and no longer deny our truth. Blue Goldstone is associated with the metaphysical properties of Copper.

Healing: Useful For Migraines, Enhance Eye-Sight, Reduces Stomach Tension, Heals Psychosomatic Ailments, Use To Conquer Bulimia and Anorexia, Heals Tonsillitis, Heals Angina, Helps With Pain, Helps With Inflammation.

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Self Reflection, Release and Rise

There is So much Love within ourselves, we just need to Rise Up and not be afraid to show it and use it – Angelique Mol ღ


The last 2 weeks, I had some days to use up, I had really time for myself, time for some Self Reflection which made me see things from a different perspective and to realize even more what it is that I want in my Life and on my Journey.

Today especially, I had another day of Self Reflection, but also a moment of Releasing. After being for a bit on my Social Media channels, connecting with people and interacting with people, and watching a few videos about different subjects in Life, it was like a mirror was held up towards my Self. Not particular about What I was watching in the video, but the emotions that came with it.

It made me realize that there is So much Love in the World and within ourselves, but for some reason a lot of people keep dwelling and focusing on Negative things, Bad situations, Sad things instead of diving in the Positive things, the emotions of Caring and Loving. In the videos I watched, it was all about Loving and Caring, Standing up for Your Self, taking the Power of your own Life and Reality…..and actually Doing something with it and about it.

I actually came at a point of Emotional Release, as I Do feel a lot of Love and Caring emotions within my Self and always think I Do use them well towards others, but how much do I actually use it for My Self? What do I want to do with my Self Love, in what ways can I even more be helpful and caring towards other, using my Self Love?

Where am I at this stage in my Life? What is my Life Purpose? Where does my Self-Love comes in this? And a lot became very clear to me, and I am Grateful for this time of Self Reflection and Release. As this means I am at a point now where I can Rise again.

Self Reflection

I also came to the realization that it is Okay to feel Lost sometimes, and that you struggle within Your Self, not knowing what to Do with your Life. But try to remember that you are here for Something. And it’s for your Self to find what it is. No Life is meaningless, every Life is Meaningful. And so is Yours. You Matter, like anybody else.

And that’s why it’s important to Give your Self some time for Self Reflection, to Release Energies and Emotions that no longer serve you and to Feel you have the Right to Rise again within your own full Potential, of what You want in Life and what Feels Best for You.

You might not get the changes you want overnight, you might have to work towards it, create things or situations, except help from others (as that’s okay as well, you don’t always have to do it alone), but hold on to your Dreams and Desires, as you Can make it come true. Just keep believing in Your Self.

Sharing Love and Compassion and Being Grateful every day are no hard things to do, but it certainly helps you moving Forward, and Connect you with the people who need to be on your Journey, either to help You or for You to help Them.

My time of Self Reflection and Release did help me to Rise Up again and to Believe in My Self and in my Dreams. And I am Grateful for the people around me who are always there for me and who Believe in me too.


You can Rise Up as well and use your power of Self-Love and trust that you are Worth it. Share your Love, Show Compassion and Rise within your Consciousness and above all that doesn’t serve you any longer.

Dare to choose, dare to make the right decisions for You…..as deep inside Your Self you already Know what you want if you Really listen to your Inner Self.

Be You, Love You, Live You and live Your life.

Angelique ღ

Powerful qualities of Lapis Lazuli

Deep Blue flecked with Gold, dense, veined and looks like the Night in the Sky


Lapis Lazuli opens the “Third Eye” and balances the Throat Chakra.

It stimulates enlightenment and enhances dream work and Psychic Abilities, facilitating Spiritual Journeying and Stimulating personal and spiritual power.

It also quickly releases stress and brings deep Peace. It possesses enormous Serenity and is the Key to Spiritual Attainment.

Lapis Lazuli is a Protective stone that contacts Spirit Guardians, it recognises Psychic “attack”, blocks it and returns the Energy to its Source.

It Harmonizes the Physical, Emotional, Mental and Spiritual levels. Imbalances between these levels can cause Depression, Dis-ease and lack of Purpose. In Balance the harmony brings deep Inner Self knowledge.

Lapis Lazuli is a Powerful thought amplifier as it Stimulates the higher faculties of the Mind, brining Objectivity and Clarity. It encourage Creativity through attunement to the Source.

It also helps you to confront Truth, wherever you find it, and to Accept what it teaches. It aids in Expressing your own opinions and harmonises conflict. It bonds Relationships in Love and Friendship and aids expressing Feelings and Emotions.



Lapis Lazuli alleviates Pain, especially that of Migraine Headaches. It overcomes Depression, benefits the Respiratory and Nervous Systems and the Throat, Larynx and Thyroid, cleanses Organs, Bone Marrow, Thymus and the Immune System. It alleviates Insomnia and Vertigo and lowers Blood Pressure and also purifies Blood and overcomes Hearing loss.


Position of usage:

Wear (on a crystal necklace) of Place at the Throat or Third Eye. Lapis Lazuli should be positioned above the Diaphragm, anywhere between the Sternum and the top of the Head.


Source: The Crystal Bible, volume 1 by Judy Hall

You Always have a Choice….

Life choices

Choices are not always easy and often it brings us doubt and fear. These are the main reasons for people to not making choices but avoiding them, pushing it away for a while and don’t think about it too much.

But when we are in a situation or environment where we don’t feel quite Happy we sometimes need to make decisions and choices, otherwise a change can never occur. We sometimes just can’t avoid it even we know ourselves how hard it is to make that choice.

Try not to be afraid to make choices, have no fear. As when you come to a point of making choices you are obviously in a situation which made you decide you need to change something. And that’s a good thing as it will be moving your Forward in your Life, in your Journey.

Choices can be excited or can be hard or with strong emotions, but when you are at a point of demanding to make a change, do it! It didn’t show up for no reason. If it’s about an opportunity, don’t shut the door as you might not get a second chance. If it’s about strong emotions that are involved it will definitely bring you towards a better place and position in your Life.

It is always up to ourselves. Do we stay in the same situation and environment or do we create a change which will push us forward to something better?

Never Regret any choices either! When you made a choice and afterwards it didn’t turn out to be how you wanted, try to learn from it. Choices are never wrong or bad. When it didn’t bring us Success it brought us at least a Lesson. And through lessons we learn, grow and develop!

Have a closer look on your Life……are you Truly Happy? With your Work, Family, Relationship, Environment…. If not, what would you like to change?

Remember…..You always have a Choice!

Angelique Mol ॐ

When Stuck in a Relationship

Stuck in Relationship
What do you do when you feel  Stuck in a Relationship? Do you still try to work things out (sometimes even when you know better) or will you try to figure out what the problem or source is and take action?
Maybe you’ve have been here before, just like me…..
I don’t know how you handled but I can tell you that I stayed way too long trying while deep inside I knew better already. Is it just a way of being stubborn or is it because you still have that little tiny bit of Hope that it might turn out well again…… ( yes, right) ;-)
Afterwards I think, and know now, that I should do things differently. As I had the Choice and the Opportunity to handle sooner than I actually did.
And the worst things of all of it was that things gone more bad, worse than it already was. The irritation got worse by the day, I got more and more annoyed even about little things what was normally never a big issue.
Until the day came that I Just couldn’t handle it anymore, I needed to Leave or better to Escape out of there. It became unbearable for me to stay there any longer. I was full of Stress, Emotions, Nervous, Angry ( mostly about myself) and Sadness as well.
At that point it was already Way to Far…..I shouldn’t have let it come this far…..Bút, I came into action and in no time I managed to get out, find a place of my own and I could fall back into Peace and Relaxation again. Which obviously did cost me some time as your body needs to recover sort of from all the Stress and Tension that was there for way to long!
Now, a couple of years later I know and I advice as well towards others to cut things short as soon as you Know and Feel deep inside that the time in the Relationship is Over and Done with…..that it will never Heal again or turn back to how it used to Be.
Of course, when you still believe there is a change, even the slightest, that it can work out again you need to fight for it!
But sometimes…..You just Know.
So, what do you do when You Know and you have a Big Urge to Escape?
Well first of All…..you have to be in agreement with Your Self, you have to Be sure that This is what you want to do and that you are Ready to move on.
One of the most important things is, Never leave out of a current Relationship because of Someone else. When you’ve met someone else and you like to live your Life further with that other person, that’s okay. But find out the Real Reason why you did fall in Love with someone else in the first place. Obviously there was already a lack in the Relationship or some kind of Unhappiness. When you’re only reason would be “for someone else” there is a change of big dissapointment or regret when the “new relationship” might not turn out that great and it ends.
Once you Know the True Reason why you want to get out it’s the best thing to talk with your Partner. Be very Honest about everything, how you Feel, how you experience the Relationship and for how long you already not Happy anymore. Important here is not to start Blaming each other, that doesn’t make sense and it often turns out in a fight or argument, and that’s not worth it. Best thing is if you can leave the Relationship gracefully, altought there might be a lot of sadness and maybe anger involved by your partner.
As long as you can talk and explain in an easy and quiet conversation it’s the best condition to arrange it together.
Of course, it’s not always like this when your partner might totally flip out and tries to start a fight with you. In this case the best thing to do is to say that you like to talk later on when the emotions are under control again and take distance for that moment.
When you stick too long in an “unwanted” Relationship it costs you a Lot of Energy. You can feel that it drains you, it makes you feeling out of Balance, Nervous, Angry, Emotional and your head is Full of thought running through your Head and taking over Everything.
Believe me, you DO know when the time has come for you that you want or need to move on.
I know that “Others” always expect you to stay with your Partner or Husband as you are in a serious Commitment. But what if you are not Happy anymore? Do you really Need to stay in there no matter what? Even when it breaks your own Life down more or less?
Remember this…..sometimes we meet people in our Lives because we need to Learn things. Once we have Learned those people might easily dissapear out of our Lives again. It’s just the way it goes. Sometimes we meet the right Partner straight away but sometimes it takes up to a few Relationships before we meet the “right” one. The good part of ending a Relationship is that there was Always a Lesson in there….believe it or not but it’s the way it works.
I’ve been there as well, just like You or a lot of other people. And when I think back I can find in every former Relationship something I needed to learn. If you start to be Aware of that you will recognize it ;-).
So short to say……When you Truly Believe or Know that your Relationship has a chance to survive and heal, Fight for It!
When you Truly Believe or Know it won’t work out for you anymore, Don’t waste to much time about it and take action! Always try to solve it in a Peaceful way even though your Partner of other people around it try to take you down, keep in Peace and send Love from your Heart to your Partner and others who are involved to help them Heal their situation.
Remember, you Did have good times as well with your Partner  ( well, at least in most relationships it is ), so it’s okay to keep those nice memories and Still try to See Love in that Person. Sometimes you Grow more or faster in your Personal Development than he or she does, and so it can Be Time for you to move on.
It’s always the Best if you can arrange and sort out things in a still Friendly matter, but I also know that it’s not always possible that way as there is Always Two involved in this situation.
For Your Self, Be as Good as you can Be towards your Opposite, have the Best Intentions to solve it in a Peaceful Way.
At least you show some great Character, the Opposite needs to deal with his/her Own Feelings and Emotions as well, you can’t help them with that, that’s a part of their Journey as well ;-).
When you have questions about this or you need someone to talk to or you can use some support, you can Always turn to a Life Coach :-).
Feel Free and don’t Hestitate!
Angelique ღ