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2018, a Year “11” which represents New Beginnings

“Do you feel the urge to Create an Amazing Year for yourself?”

Every year, after our New Year’s celebrations people come up with all kinds of Resolutions for the New Year. Some will succeed in doing so when they look back on it at the end of the Year. But a lot of people don’t succeed and for that matter already don’t make Resolutions as they feel they’re not gonna be able to do it anyway. So, even the trying is gone ;-)

Funny enough, even though this year is only a few days “old”, I’ve heard from so many people that they Feel this is gonna be a Great, Fantastic or Amazing year for them. Which I feel is awesome, as that means that people set out the intentions to actually Create a Wonderful year for themselves!

In Numerology the year 2018 is a Number 11 year. So if you like to pick a year for New Beginnings, then this might be the Right year for you! Number 11 is a Master Number in Numerology and carries the foundation for New Beginnings. As you might know, setting out intentions is a powerful way to start Creating and Manifesting. Keeping your Mind focussed on what you like to achieve this year, can very much so Result in what you want to achieve this year, or in the years to come.

Last year there was a Lot of focus on becoming Successful, Rich, Earn lots of money……the advertisements were in your face basically All the time. But slowly towards the end of the year it seems that the focus of people (and advertisement) goes more into the direction of Health, Mindfulness, Balance, Healthy Foods, Less Chemicals, Illness prevention, Organics. And I think that is great!

Personally, I feel as well that 2018 is gonna be an Amazing Year! At least, I work on to set the Intentions to Create one, even though the first days of this year I was already challenged in a certain personal way, but, it doesn’t distract me from my own Goals and Resolutions for this year.

My year will be in focus of more study, Herbalism, Holistic Therapies but also how I place my Self in the World, towards others, my Friends, Family, Acquaintances. I always Feel that I can improve my Self in certain ways and I Feel that as long as I keep working on my Self, it will get better and easier. If I compare my Self now with my Self a couple of years ago, then I can say that I feel proud of what I already have achieved and how much I have learned and improved my Self, for my Self but also towards others.

I like to keep working on my Positive Attitude and Mindset, to stay in my centre when I get challenged in a certain way. As something only “hits” us as much as how we Let it hit us. It’s not always easy, as often after a certain challenge you might ask your Self why you let yourself getting so upset, or getting it to you so much. But, at that point it’s another learning moment and you try to do it better next time. It’s all a process of learning, accepting, allowing and moving forward again.

I feel Life becomes exciting when you’re facing challenges, get opportunities, meet new people and recognise how you Change over time. You might recognise yourself that you can have a very different Perspective on something now comparing to a year or a couple of years ago. Isn’t that awesome?!

Before I start to rumble on and on about challenges and opportunities, I like to use this moment, now you are here with me, to ask your Self how You can make 2018 an Amazing year for you. What would you like to change, what Resolutions did you came up with so far or maybe you like to keep it all in the open ;-) Which is great as well! Just Go with the Flow!

At least I hope that you are Excited as I am, for this new year and having a good feeling about it as well! I hope this Number 11 year will bring you Great New Beginnings in every possible way! Imagine, Believe and Achieve!

Angelique ღ

Is True Happiness not enough anymore?

“Sometimes when I go over my Social Media channels and look at several posts, then it makes me wonder what people find Really important in Life these days”


Sometimes I’m a bit shocked what I see on Social Media, how people respond on posts about Succes, Get Rich Programmes and Earn a 7-figure Income by so to called “Coaches” Especially because it’s a bit sad that it takes away the True meaning of a Life Coach. A lot of Coaches are now in “the picture” as people who only make lots of money and become real Public Figures. While a True Life Coach is someone who has the Real Intention to Help people improving their Lives, by Creating Happiness and Balance but not mainly based on becoming Succesful or Earning lots of Money.

It makes me wonder what People these days See as True Happiness. I feel there is So much Pressure at the moment that you “Need” to earn lots of Money, Become Succesful and, even better, Become a Public Figure yourself. “Normal” is not good enough anymore, and that’s a True Shame.

You see, True Happiness and True Wealth has actually Nothing to do with Money. You can be Extremely Happy with your Life and what you Have, even though it’s not financially much but Comfortable. Sometimes people who have barely nothing, like in other Countries and Cultures, might be even more Happy than we are. They don’t have much, and they don’t know any better, so they are Grateful with what they have. They don’t have stress or worries about Bills, making lots of Money and Create Status.

We are So Controlled by Society today that we are basically “not interesting” if we don’t show on Social Media what we Have, How Succesful we are and How much Money we make. This Pressure can actually make people Depressed when they are not able to Achieve in this. And How Sad is that?


Lots of people Think that Wealth and Happiness only comes with lots of Money, as then you can Do and Buy what you want. But what, for whatever reason or through whatever circumstances, you don’t have that much money (anymore)…..what Do you have left? Often people fall into Depression when they “lose everything”, and here I talk about material status. As these people had the Believe that the Material Life they had was their Happiness. Again, this is actually Sad as well, as they Still could be Happy and Feel Happiness and be Wealthy….if they Only could See where the True Happiness and Wealth is kept.

So, what is True Happiness and Wealth then? How can you Be and Feel Happy and Wealthy when you don’t have lots of Money, an expensive Car or an expansive Home or Mansion?

You can Create True Happiness when you are able to Be Grateful. Grateful for what you Do have, for All that you already Received and having the Trust in All that still will Come for you. If you have a Roof above your head, Food on the table, a Warm Shower every morning, Beloved Family and Friends around you, Your gadgets, Your Health and still be able to go Out for a meal or a drink sometimes……then you can consider yourself as a Wealthy person. Compare yourself and your Life situation with someone who has Much less than you have….why is it Needed to have more? Is What you already Have not Satisfying enough? As if that’s the case, you will Never be Satisfied as you will Keep Wanting More.

Happiness, you find this Within Yourself. Again, when you are Grateful of what you Have and All that comes to you, if you can Enjoy the little things in Life, if you Feel Loved and are able to Give Love, if you have Good Health, if you can Live without Stress and Worries and be able to Take Life as it comes for you….then you are Creating Inner Happiness. As you Don’t Feel the Need to have more, you don’t feel Greed, as you are Happy with what you Have.


Happiness is Not in Materialism, it is in You, it is in the Non-Material things. And for some people this might be “hard to believe” when their Focus is on Materialism, or their Believe is in Happiness only comes with Materialism. Don’t get Fooled too much by Succesful or the so to called Rich people, as you don’t know if they are actually Truly Happy. But don’t get me wrong, there Are people as well who are very Wealthy and Rich and Are Happy, but they Created a Good Balance in their Life and they Still know the most Importancy in Life. Often these people Give Back. They Help and Support the Homeless or other Charities and that is Great!

What I try to make clear is to Not let your Happiness depending on Money or other Materialism. As when you Only try to search for your Happiness in that, you will keep searching for the rest of your Life. Instead, try to Find the Happiness within You and in the Life you have at the moment. Don’t let yourself Pressure by Society how you Supposed to live your Life or What you should do to become Succesful and make lots of money. It is totally okay to Be Grateful with what you have and Enjoy your Life as it is.

Even if you are Not totally happy with your Life how it is at the moment, maybe because of your current job or relationship or other circumstances, then Try to find a way to Change things around. But then in way that is Right and within Normality. Not by putting Pressure on yourself or Create Stress as this will actually Block your Flow of Happiness. And surely Not because you Need to Look Succesful in the eyes of Others. Someone else can’t make you Happy, You need to Create your own Happiness. And if you only would do it to Look Better towards others, then you Make Others Happy, but finally Not Yourself.


Start Creating your Own Happiness! Smile, Laugh, Live, Love, Appreciate, Care, Do what you Love doing! As in there you will find True Happiness and Wealth.

Angelique Mol ღ

Do you Really Go with the Flow?

People often say “I just go with the flow”. But Do they Really? Is it because they Think they go with the flow, or Do they really know How to do it? Do You know How to do it? 

 

This morning I had a bit of a “Aha!” moment. As I know you still can learn every day, from wherever the source is coming from, as long as you are open for it. An Open Mind is a Perceptive Mind.

I started to read in the book “Change your Thoughts Change your Life” from Wayne Dyer, I had the intention already for ages but for some reason it didn’t came to it. It was probably not the ‘right’ time yet, which is obviously was this morning.

The book describes the Way of Tao, based on Tao Te Ching, to Go with the Flow, the Universal Flow. And only the first ‘verse’ of Tao was already an eye opener for me. I already learned much over the years about the Universal Laws, Law of Attraction, how to Have and Keep a Positive Mindset, how to Create Inner Peace and my Consciousness has grown massively over the year of what I’m Very Grateful for. But still, this was an even more Deeper Understanding for me on top of what I already have learned and practiced over the years. And this shows again, there is Always something you can Learn, Improve, Change or Rich your Life with and grow even more in Consciousness.

Go with the Flow. We often say that when we Feel that we don’t stress about things, but just let the things happen as it comes. Which is great! But what is Really going with The Flow? Is it only about ‘well I just let things come as they come’ or is there more behind it. I learned this morning, there Is more behind it. And it made me Realise how this will Change a lot of things within my own Life, but also within my Holistic Coaching and Therapy.

We are raised and conditioned with certain thoughts about How things Are or How they supposed to Be. We are learned that there is Good and Bad, Black and White, Dark and Light and that one can’t go without the other. In Tao you learn to think more Paradoxically. Things are not really opposite from each other, they are actually similar on each other, but seen from a different perspective.

You can Desire something, and often you want to have it Now. If you can’t have it, for whatever reason, you get disappointed and this blocks the energy of Manifesting, as you don’t give it Time to Create it. So when you can go in a State of Desireless you Give yourself Time for your Desire to Manifest. Basically it comes to the point that we need to Learn that we must stop to put Pressure and Expectations within ourselves and give ourselves Time to Manifest our Dreams, Goals and Wishes. Desireless means Trusting, Permitting and Allowing.

And instead of saying ‘I Need to or I Must’ change your Mind and Learn your Mind to say ‘I Allow’. As when you Allow yourself, you Let Go of your Desire for that moment and Allow it to Manifest and come to you when the time is right. If you put Pressure on yourself because you Need or Must do things, you actually Create a Stress Energy which can block the Flow. And again, when the Energy Flow of a Desire is blocked it can’t be Created and Manifest.

Go with the Flow and Letting Go has also to do with Let things Be, without always Knowing or Wanting to Know or Figuring it all out. Don’t try so Hard to Make something work or happen, simply Allow. Tao is The Flow, The Way and it’s important to enjoy this without the pressure of trying to understand everything and stress about it.

Relax, Let Go and simply Allow. You will find that some Desires are about how you think your world Should be now, rather than How it Is in that Moment, in the Now. Become more of an Observer, Judge Less and Listen more. Don’t Lable or Name things, as these are things we as Humans have Created. From the Universal Energies nothing is Named or Labled. So Let Go of these impressions, expectations and conditioning.

All of this made me Realise, for me as a Life Coach that I can Help people in such a different way comparing to the way a lot of Coaches work. I already had a Different Vision about Life Coaching, as like I mention on my website in the “About Me” section, I like to Help people in a Unique way as Everyone is Unique, not by the standard Coaching Plans and pushing someone that it’s important to earn a 7-figure income. To me, that is not True Life Coaching, it’s Selling a Progamme. But this morning it came to me even more Clear how I can Fine Tune my way of Coaching and Genuine Helping People.

Setting Goals is great, and you can still do that as that might give a certain meaning in your Life. Creating a Plan where you want to Be in 5 years from now, is still a nice start point but the Only difference now according to the Flow and The Way of Tao is that you need to set out your Intentions and then Let Go….to give it Time to Manifest. No Pressure that you Need to Be at a certain point in 5 years from now, as who knows what crosses your Path within these 5 years? You might reach your Goal sooner than that, or maybe it even takes you a bit longer. And that’s the whole point. Take off the Pressure, Stress and Expectations. Just learn to Change your Mindset, Set out your Intentions ( or Dreams or Goals ) and then Let Go and simply Allow.

In this way, a Coach can still Motivate you, Help you but in a True and Genuine way to Improve your Life, with All that comes with it. Together with using Powerful Affirmations ( which are strong intentions you send out ) you are even in a Better position to reach your Goals or Create the Life that you want. But if you simply Allow and the Universal Energy can just Flow naturally, it will Manifest in your Physical Reality.

I hope this gave you a bit more clarity and insight in how the Universal Energy Really works. How it Really works when you Go with the Flow. It’s not something you just Say, you need to Practice it, in the right way. Which also involves Accepting things as they Are, Let Go of it and Allow.

If you Really want to Change your Life in How you Want it to be, start to Learn how to Really Live in the Flow, start to Learn to change your Thoughts and Mindset, start to Change your Perception on Things and People and start to Learn to Accept, to Let Go and to Allow.


Angelique Mol ღ
Source: Dr. Wayne W. Dyer – Change your Thoughts Change your Life

Ask yourself; Is my Life how I Really Want it to be?

Happiness is something we Create for ourselves. Often we take things for granted and assume that we are Really Happy with what we are doing in Life and with who. But when you start to look at yourself from a distance, a different perspective, outside from yourself like someone else would look at you ……..are you Truly Happy with what you are doing, with who and what you have Achieved for yourself? Or are there still hidden Passions, Dreams and Goals?

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You migh have a way of denying your Goals and Dreams or better to say “excuses” for not following them. You might think ‘it’s not for me’, ‘I’m too old now to get started’, ‘I would never be able to do that’, ‘what will others say’, ‘I don’t know even where to start’.

These are not really “excuses” but these are actually Beliefs, buried Deep down inside of you. You truly Believe yourself ( and others ) that these “excuses” are Reasons for not taking action on your Goals and Dreams. So the First thing you would need to work on is start Believing that you still Can go for your Goals and Dreams.

Just ask yourself: If you Have the Opportunity (without all the Beliefs/Excuses) to go for your Goals and Dreams after all, Would you Do it?

So imagine….all the “excuses” don’t exist, are not there….Create a picture in yourself that you are Free from those….What kind of Excitement can you Feel within yourself by the Thought and Idea of getting started towards your Goals and Dreams?  There are No Limitations, Nobody to tell you off………………..Great Feeling aye?!

So then now ask yourself again: Am I happy as my situation in Life is right now? Would going for my Goals and Dreams fill my Life with Much more Happiness? Would it make my Life more Complete and Satisfied?………….Shall I just Go for it?!…………..

What do you Feel? How do you Feel right now?

Don’t let any Doubts, Fear, Insecurity hold you away from this moment of Excitement.

Remember, you Always have a Choice and no reasons to wait any longer, as even taking little baby-steps towards your Goal is Moving Forward!

You might be Excited but also a bit confused about How to get started. Maybe you find it difficult to create a Plan for yourself or even to find the first starting point. And that’s okay, as long as it doesn’t take you away from your Goals or Dreams.

A Life Coach can Help you, even if it’s just with the First Step and you can Go from there by yourself, or you might like a bit more support along your way towards your Goal, or you might even like to benefit from Coaching till you’ve reached your Goal.

So there are several options where a Coach can Help you and with what kind of intensity. The choice is All yours. You make the Choices, you make the Decisions.

How do you know if a Coach is right for you? The only way to find out is to grab the option for a Complimentary Session. This is a Free Coaching Session and can take half an hour to an hour. In this Session you can discuss what is on your Mind and What you like to Do. A Coach can then explain to you what the Options are within Coaching and You can Decide if you are happy with that. If you are, you can discuss How to Go from there. If you are not entirely happy or want to think about it first, you Can.

Remember, it is Very important that you Want a Coach to help you! As this can bring you Amazing results. Your Motivation is the Most Important factor within the Coaching!

If you are curious now, or even better, Excited to make a Great Change in your Life, then click Here to use your Complimentary Coaching Session to find out!!

It won’t harm you or make your situation less, so Why not using this option when it’s given to you for FREE.

See you soon!

Angelique ღ

 

 

 

 

Improve your Life – Mind Shift

The Love and Truth Field

When you drive in your car, in the 2nd gear and try to Speed Up, the engine will get over-stressed, it can only Run smoothly again when you Shift……

For us, in our Body and Mind it works exactly the same.

When we want to Improve our Life, become more Succesful, Create something, Make a Change, Manifest our Dreams….we need to Do something.

You can’t Create or make a Change when you stay at the same Level of Speed you are in now. You need to put Effort in it and that means you need to Speed Up.

Speeding Up means that you become more Creative for ideas, that you Raise in Consciousness so it will make you Move Forward.

To Create Progress you need to Move Forward, you need to Speed Up.

So what you actually need doing is Shift into the next gear, in your Mind, create more Speed towards your Goal. Then, instead of Struggling and feeling Stuck ( because you stay in the 2nd gear ) you Shift into the next gear which makes Everything run Smoothly.

When everything runs Smoothly you can Think better, Visualize better, Create better ideas which will gives you more Confidence and Believe as well in your Dreams and Goals.

Mind Shift is Very Powerful and Important when you are Longing for Change, you will create the right level of Energy and Vibration.

Learning to Mindshift is Improving your Life(style). And this goes hand in hand with Happiness, Feeling Confident and Being Succesful.

Start now! Shift your Mind in the Gear of Possibilities!

Angelique Mol ॐ

Spirituition Life Coaching
www.angeliquemol.com