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Saying “No”….is it that hard?

Is it So hard to say “No” ? If it is….why? If it is not….why often don’t we?

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I used to be someone, and rarely still am, who had a hard time to say “No”….to things, but mainly to people.

I came at a point that I thought “why can’t I just say No for once”? Is it such a hard thing to do? Is it selfish?

We all learn to be polite, to please other people in different kind of ways and even often we learned to do things we “must” do, even though we don’t really feel up to it.

Over the years I learned to listen more to my Self, and even it’s sometimes still hard to do what I feel and want, I made a huge progress in this. I still have moments that I don’t say No, even when I maybe should or want to….but I look now more to the situation and for who it’s for, not just for everything and everybody.

The point is, when we always say Yes to everybody and everything, people start to have expectations from us and actually we do this to ourselves, by always agreeing and saying Yes…..

The moment we start to say No, we might get some comments, pulling faced and attitudes from people….but, as soon as they realise you do what You want and not what you Don’t want, they will finally accept.

It gives a form of Freedom as you know for yourself, you don’t Have to. You don’t have to do anything that doesn’t feel right for You. And this is okay, it’s not selfish.

We, people, are So tight up by rules, what we “must” do, how we “should” do…..says who? Who’s making up these rules, who decides?

In the end…..it’s You who decides! You always have a choice, in anything.

Angelique ღ

 

New Year’s Resolutions

Do you have any New Year’s Resolutions?

Start on January 1
Start on January 1

Every year you hear people making a Wish list again for what they want to do different in the New Year. New Resolutions like ‘Being Better’, ‘Live more Healthy’, ‘Losing Weight’, ‘Go to the Gym more often’ etc.

But actually…..Every Day is a new day for new Opportunities, New Chances, Changes and Resolutions. It’s funny people always use the New Year as The Opportunity to change something for the Better in their Lives. I think it became more of a habit or even a kind of tradition.

But when you use Every Day as a chance for a new Opportunity or Resulation you don’t have to wait till the New Year and start Right Away! How Awesome is that?! Unless you try to pull if off of course ;-)

For a lot of things it’s actually better Not to wait as why would you lose So much Time when you Really like to Change something? Sometimes you just need to Make yourself Excited to get started, but that’s okay! Find things that Make you Excited so you see No Reason yourself to pull it of!

If you have new Ideas about changing things, talk with other’s about it, Especially when they already doing something that you would like doing as well! They might be even able to Motivate you and give you just that little Push you need to get going with it.

My advise, don’t wait till every New Year to Create Positive Life Changes. Do it Now! Stop waisting time and Start using time! You can Create so much Wonderful things for yourself which makes you Feel better!

Don’t you just want to Feel good the Whole Year through? Instead of only the Excitement at the beginning of each Year because of the ‘Great Resolutions’ you intend to create?

And then…..how much of the Resolutions you make you really Create? Or do you often make them but in the end it’s not Created at all or just a part of it?

Another reason for not to wait. As often you create too many Resolutions at once and put the Pressure on yourself to Create them all. While if you work on it as every day is a chance to Create new Resolutions you will have Much more Excitement and Way less Pressure.

Not only towards yourself but also towards others. As often you tell others about your New Resolutions for the New Year, so people will have Expectations of you. Why would you put yourself up with that pressure?

Skip the whole “sharing” of what your New Resolutions are, even if it’s with New Year or through the Year, keep it for yourself or just share it with your partner, a family member or a very good friend ( who won’t judge you when you fail in creating your Resolution) and just Do It! In this way you don’t have to ‘worry’ that others have Expectations and you Feel the pressure you Can’t Fail.

So….just sit back, Relax, think about what you would like to Progress this Year for yourself and take your time. Do it All at your Own Pace, your own Time and when You are Ready for it! Not, because it is New Year and everyone is doing it ;-)

Change your Life Today, not Tomorrow!

Namaste,

Angelique ॐ

 

Awakening starts with Curiosity

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Sometimes people ask me “how do I know I start to Awaken?”. I always answer from out of my own Intuition and Experience and what I’ve seen with most people “It starts with Curiosity”.

The first step in Awakening starts with getting curiosity in how things really are or why some things happen or putting question marks at certain events that have happened in the world. At first you feel the urge to really Know things, so you start to search and try to discover answers about the Truth. You start reading about the violence and terrible events in the world, what happens in Politics, what really happens in Life at the moment…. You start to realize that a lot of things are not like they seem to be or how the media shows you…..you start to realize that They only let you See what They want you to See.

When this curiosity unfolds itself you start to meet people who think the same, who can tell you more about what they already have discovered and you learn even more. Your curiosity grows by the day and you get even more excited to find more answers where the Truth is hidden. Once you start to find the first answers and your eyes are getting open it’s almost not possible to close your eyes again as the hunger of knowing keep growing stronger and stronger.

Awakening is not just a Spiritual turn in your Life it is also a turn in your Personal Development. You grow towards new directions where you first not even knew they existed. You start to change personally as well as you start to get other opinions about things because so much more is getting clear now. And once you take this road of discovery there is no turn back! And that’s the most exciting part of it all :-)

People, news, events can’t “trick” you anymore as you start to see more and more where the false flags are at. And it’s not just about the world news or the Politics, but also about our food…what happens with that? Ever heard about Monsanto yet? You are solving a puzzle and slowly all the pieces fall together and you will realize that it is all connected. Same with certain diseases like cancer or the whole discussion about legalizing Marijuana. Ever read about the connection between cancer and Marijuana or Hemp Oil? How the one can heal the other? Ever wondered why they don’t like to legalize Marijuana? And so there are many more things that will become clear to you.

Once the questions start to rise up the more curiosity you get to find even more answers…..about everything! And that’s the very first step into Awakening. People sometimes even don’t know they start to Awaken until they read something about it. You feel no longer a “sheep” in the crowd, all walking back to back in the same direction….no you become “the black sheep” and turn into your own direction, moving yourself away from all and everyone, with your own opinion and discoveries.

Yes, you might lose friends because they don’t understand you anymore. Family even might not understand you anymore or try to attack your opinions to make you step away from it again. But the funny thing is, they can’t, nobody can anymore because the “click” has been made. On the other hand you might start to wonder why not everybody is “seeing” what you see. How can others still hang on their Truth while you already discovered that it is not the real Truth?

Always remember…..everybody comes to Awakening when it’s their own Divine Timing. Some people won’t even Awaken in this Lifetime as they are not ready for it yet. But you can’t stand still with them, you need to move on as there is so much more to discover. And yes, at this moment it can happen that you sort of move away from people who can’t keep up with you. But that’s okay as they have their own Journey to go, their own Life to live on their own pace.

You even can come at a point you feel lonely, like if you are the only one who is seeing the Truth. All your friends or even family doesn’t understand you, don’t want to know anything about it so with who can you talk about it? Where are all the others who also discovered the same as you? Where are all the other people who start to Awaken, I just can’t be the only one?!

Happy Internet! Here you can find so much information but also Groups, Forums, Websites etc. where all people connect who are “Like Minded”. And once you start to connect with these people it will feel as “coming home” as a relief. It’s such a great feeling when there is someone who experiences the same as you and where you can talk to without being judged or told off. You start to make new friends who are also raising in Consciousness and the more people you meet the more you realize “You are not alone” :-) .

Don’t be afraid to go out and explore, discover and live your Truth. Know there are so much people out there who went through the same process as you and who are happy to help you grow even more and share more information with you or discover new things together. Once the Awakening starts it’s like a river and you will go with the flow and let it all come to you….and do let it happen! You finally discover the Truth and how you have been living in a kind of Fantasy World where you thought it was all true what was around you but that is was all a veil covering the Truth.

Now, you go out there and embrace the Awakening as Magical Discoveries are about to come to you! Enjoy the Journey! :-)

 

* If you have any more questions about Awakening, Awareness and raising Consciousness or you have the feeling of being stuck in your Journey, feel free to contact me at spirituition@live.com or Skype: Spirituition ( add in the comment it’s about Spiritual Coaching as I get a lot of “friend requests” which has nothing to do with what I do :-p )
Namaste,

Angelique Mol ॐ

 

Free Personal Numerology Report

Hi there!

I am very much drawn to Numerology and I get Signs shaped in numbers every day, sometimes even more than once a day :-) .  It’s one of the ways how I communicate with my Guides. I always Love to create a Numerology Report as it So makes sense on your Personality and what kind of things you can expect. Of course, it’s not predicting the Future but when I read my Report from last year it totally makes sense to me how the year before has been for me.

I like to make you a Special Offer and I will share my enthusiasm with You! I will send you a complete FREE Personal Numerology Report. This includes your Life Path Number, Your Expression Number, Your Soul Urge Number and more! Believe me, no tricks here, just Kindness ;-) .

Why do I send you this for FREE? Because in this way you probably will explore my website even more and will I be able to spread my Light more over the World :-) . Beside that, I think sharing a Report like this one should be FREE anyway. How great is it to share Universal information with each other without receiving anything back for it! At least it’s good for Karma :-p

It’s great to Learn from each other and share Knowledge without a price tag, especially with things like this. But that’s my Spiritual opinion :-) .

So, if you are Interested in receiving this FREE Personal Numerology Report, and I can’t think of one reason why you shouldn’t ;-) fill in the form below. Bear with me that it might take a day or two longer when I get bombed with requests .

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