When an Opportunity arrives it can bring confusion at the same time as well.
What shall I do? How shall I do it? Will it be a good Choice to take it? Will there be too much risk?
Opportunities are Chances to make a Change.
And of course you have Always the Choice to Go for it or let is pass by……
But if you let it pass by, you might miss out something good….or something better.
What makes an decision to take an Opportunity so hard sometimes?
It can happen that an Opportunity means you need to make Changes in your present Life, stepping out of your Comfort Zone.
And that is not always easy for everyone. But what is the other option? Let go of the opportunity and probably miss out on something good.
Yes, sometimes it means you need to move to another City or maybe even to another Country ( which can be pretty excited too as I did it myself once ) :-) .
And when you have children they need to go to another school, leaving their current friends and start new as well.
There can be a lot that needs to be arranged and will that all be possible in a short period of time? Maybe you even need to sell your house……
So now we need to compare What we have Now and Where we will end up…..
The most important thing is that you Feel with your Heart and Less with your Mind. Yes, sometimes you need to take a “risk” or “jump from the edge” to step out of your Comfortable and Safe Life to grow further.
When you never take any chance or never make any change in your Life, how can you expect to move forward and reach the goal you want?
When you set out strong intentions for Your Self that it will work out because you Want it very much, then it Will Work!
It’s often your Mind that confuses You with all these thoughts about “but what if this or what if that”?
You can’t look into the Future so you will never know up front how things will work out definitely in the end, but you Do know that if you set the right Intentions for Your Self you have Much to say in it ;-).
When this Opportunity maybe is something you have waited for so long and it’s actually something you Really want, then just simply Go for It!
You never know if you get another chance to do so and when you have trust ( as the opportunity didn’t come up for nothing ) you can be sure it Will work out for you!
I moved to New Zealand once because I had the opportunity to do so. Couple of people around me tried to warn me because “what if it doesn’t work out?” “what do you do then?” “If you give up everything here and you need to come back, will you be able to?”
So, because of this I Could have got doubts or got unsecure.
But actually, I felt I didn’t need to explain anything to anybody as I was excited about it and if I would let this chance pass by I might have been wondering the rest of my Life how it would have been if I Had been there.
So, in a pretty short time my partner and me had to sell the house, he had to quit his job, my daughter needed to go of school, we needed to sell lots of our stuff as we couldn’t bring all…..but we Did!
And now…..I didn’t manage to stay in New Zealand, I stayed there for just over 2 years, but it was Such a great Time and Experience of my Life!
No One will Ever take that away from me anymore!
I returned to Europe but I’m always Happy and most of all Very Grateful for the Opportunity that was Given to me.
When you Trust on your Own Feelings and are not weak for the “judgements” or “good advice” from Others, you Know deep inside if this Opportunity is worth to Go for or not.
And even when it doesn’t look clear yet immediately or when it still can look a bit uncertain, sometimes you just need to step in the Unknown with the Trust you are always Guided for it to turn out well.
When you put too much Doubts or Fear in there Your Self you attract the wrong Energy and it might happen it doesn’t turn out that well ;-).
Have Faith and Trust, very important, and Believe in Your Self and your Ability to make it work! And then it Will Work!
Just let things happen, stay in the Now and Go with the Flow of Life as that’s the only Way to Grow and Develop :-)
Angelique ღ ,Life Coachwww.angeliquemol.com